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Posted on: April 28, 2010

“Think like a man of action, and act like a man of thought.”
– Henri L. Bergson

“I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. And because I cannot do everything I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.”
Hellen Keller

“Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying yes too quickly and not saying no soon enough.”
Josh Billings

“Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there”
Will Rogers

“Man often becomes what he believes himself to be. If I keep on saying to myself that I cannot do a certain thing, it is possible that I may end by really becoming incapable of doing it. On the contrary, if I have the belief that I can do it, I shall surely acquire the capacity to do it even if I may not have it at the beginning.”
Mahatma Gandhi

“You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.”
Christopher Columbus

“To a brave man, good and bad luck are like his left and right hand. He uses both.”
St Catherine of Siena

“When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we took so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened up for us”
Helen Keller

“We don’t see the things the way they are. We see things the way WE are.”
Talmund

“Every problem has in it the seeds of its own solution. If you don’t have any problems, you don’t get any seeds.”
Norman Vincent Peale

“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
Dr Wayne Dyer

“The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem.”
Theodore Rubin

“Pessimist : A person who says that O is the last letter of ZERO, instead of the first letter in word OPPORTUNITY.”
Anonymous

“Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”
– Thomas A Edison

“Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting”
Elizabeth Bibesco

“Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery. And today? Today is a gift. That’s why we call it the present.”
B. Olatunji

“When you get to the end of the rope, tie a knot and hang on.”
Franklin D Roosevelt

“Your attitude, not your aptitude, determines your altitude.”
Zig Ziglar

“If you’re going through hell, keep going.”
Winston Churchill

“The secret to success is to start from scratch and keep on scratching.”
Dennis Green

“Champions aren’t made in gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them a desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have the skill and the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill.”
Muhammad Ali

“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.”
Dale Carnegie

“So many of our dreams at first seems impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable.”
Christopher Reeve

“Hard work spotlights the character of people. Some turn up their sleeves. Some turn up their noses, and some don’t turn up at all.”
Sam Ewing

“There are those who work all day. Those who dream all day. And those who spend an hour dreaming before setting to work to fulfill those dreams. Go into the third category because there’s virtually no competition.”
Steven J Ross

“Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.”
Confucious

“Many of life’s failures are people who had not realized how close they were to success when they gave up.”
Thomas A Edison

“The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”
Stephen Covey

“Efficiency is doing things right. Effectiveness is doing the right things.”
Peter Drucker

“Do you know what happens when you give a procrastinator a good idea? Nothing!”
Donald Gardner

“Success is what you attract by the person you become.”
Jim Rohn

“You have to ‘Be’ before you can ‘Do’ and ‘Do’ before you can ‘Have’.
Zig Ziglar

“You can have everything in life that you want if you will just help enough other people to get what they want.”
Zig Ziglar

“The test we must set for ourselves is not to march alone but to march in such a way that others wish to join us.”
Hubert Humphrey

“Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus when the limo breaks down.”
Oprah Winfrey

“Formal education will make you a living. Self education will make you a fortune.”
Jim Rohn

“It isn’t what the book costs. It’s what it will cost you if you don’t read it.”
Jim Rohn

“You must be the change you want to see in the world.”
Mahatma Gandhi

“The future has several names. For the weak, it is the impossible. For the fainthearted, it is the unknown. For the thoughtful and valiant, it is the ideal.”
Victor Hugo

“There is nothing more genuine than breaking away from the chorus to learn the sound of your own voice.”
Po Bronson

“Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail.”
Waldo Emerson

“Use what talents you possess, the woods will be very silent if no birds sang there except those that sang best.”
Henry van Dyke

“Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric.”
Bertrand Russell

“History will be kind to me, for I intend to write it.”
Winston Churchill

“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life’s about creating yourself.”
George Bernard Shaw

“Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain. An occasional glance towards the summit keeps the goal in mind, but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vintage point.”
Harold B Melchart

“The tragedy of life doesn’t lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goals to reach.”
Benjamin Mays

“More often in life, we end up regretting the chances in life that we had, but didn’t take them, than those chances that we took and wished we hadn’t.”
Anonymous

“An excuse is worse and more terrible than a lie, for an excuse is a lie guarded.”
Pope John Paul I

“Don’t wish it were easier, wish you were better. Don’t wish for fewer problems, wish for more skills. Don’t wish for less challenges, wish for more wisdom.”
Earl Shoaf

source: Ellesse Chow

Instead of blogging on my own page, I’ve decided to just try out twitter style of blogging on Facebook under this group

但是感情的事,還是不要加入其他太多的考量,畢竟人算不如天算,跟著你心裡的聲音走吧!

Again, it’s not even XX that makes me upset
It’s other people other people’s expectation of what a perfect relationship is.  Other people’s interpretation of what a perfect relationship is and insist on making me feel like if I don’t live their interpretation of a perfect relationship, then I am not happy or the guy is not worth it.  If I am happy then everyone around should just support me. If I have to die for someone because I love that person, people should just leave their hell their butt out of the decision maker and support that person because who are they to suggest anything or make any decision.  Of course this is just a figure of speech and I am making my point across.  Relationship as you said earlier in the other message regarding marriage celebration is very, very personal only the two people inside it would know what it is like.  Whether it be a love relationship a platonic relationship or any other kind of relationship it’s always between two people even when they are others.  The relationship between two person is unique and only between them no one is alike.

I am writing for money now and in a process of writing more applications for school and may become a member of the military. 

I would hope to keep up the work I have for this blog whenever I have the time to add to this.  ^_^

I’ve started guest blogging at Men for Goddesses.  Please visit the site often if you are interested in reading about what an ideal man ought to behave! 🙂

(雙人: 女生算男生) 我該如何防止他變心?

八字

時   日   月   年

偏印  比肩  七殺  正財

庚   壬   戊   丁

子   子   申   巳

劫財  劫財  偏印  偏財

比肩  七殺

七殺  偏印

婚姻是需要透過方法用心經營的:一段沒有經營的婚姻,雖然他目前愛您,不代表他未來就不會變心。一段有經營的婚姻,他目前愛您,未來他不僅不會變心,還會更愛您。

男人變心有三種主要的可能:一、女方變了:女方的個性改變,價值觀改變,優缺點也改變,因此男方找不到之前相愛的感覺。二、男方變了:男方一直在成長,而女方沒有成長,男方的眼光越來越高,越來越看不上女方。三、外在誘惑:男方的意志不堅定,抵抗不了外在的誘惑。以上這三種是婚姻中常見的考驗,婚姻中不可能沒有考驗,沒有考驗的婚姻只是美麗的假象,禁不起風吹雨打,通過考驗的婚姻才是最真實,也最可靠的。因此,在迎接考驗前,要知己知彼,還要事先預防,他才不容易變心。

您要了解他喜歡什麼:根據分析,他喜歡太太像小綿羊,也喜歡被太太捧著的感覺。因此如果您可以在言語上對他很尊敬,把他當老爺伺候,時常假裝您很多事情不懂,事事都要請教他,他會覺得有被需要、被尊重的感覺,只要您能掌握住他的心態,他的心就會一直在您這邊。

您要了解他未來最擔心什麼:根據分析,他很怕丟臉,也很重視面子。因此,如果您跟他的親戚、朋友、同事、同學都很熟的話,就算他想要變心,他也會因為擔心穿幫後,不知該怎麼向親友們解釋,而不敢變心,這樣就可以避免婚姻路上的一些陷阱。所以,您最好能夠多參加他的各種聚會活動,對您會很有幫助。

您們應該一起成長:根據分析,阻礙您們一起成長最大的問題就在於隨著在一起的時間越久,雙方都會認為彼此在婚姻上的付出不平等,您們都覺得自己比較委屈,都覺得自己的付出沒有得到對方相對的回應,也許您們彼此其實都付出很多,但是並不是對方想要的。這其實是雙方價值觀的問題,想要解決這個問題,您們需要經常溝通,並時常詢問對方最重視什麼?最在乎什麼?最希望對方怎麼對自己?您們不要以為您們了解對方而忽略了這些小問題。

您們還應該共同面對外來的誘惑:他基本上算是有魅力的男人,男人的魅力不像女人會因為年齡而衰退,有時反而會隨著年齡而增加。人的一生都有意志力比較薄弱的時候,這時會比較糊塗,不容易抵抗外來的誘惑,每逢牛、龍、馬、猴、雞年,他可能會比較糊塗,因此您在這幾年要特別留意,要給他溫暖,給他幸福,不要跟他計較,凡事多體諒,凡事多讓他,他就不會有機會遇到誘惑,就算遇到誘惑,他也可以把持得住。您要了解抵抗外在的誘惑不只是他一個人的責任,夫妻是一體的,應該共同抵抗外來的誘惑。

?您要防止他變心,您需要做一些努力,如果把您需要努力的困難度用機率來表示的話,整體而言,困難度大約是55%。?

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