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I am a Scorpio and Sagittarius cusp with a Gemini rising.  According to zoom zoom (Mazda), I am supposedly interested in a silver or white vehicle.  Personally I like my car in RED and my dream car is likely to be in either Metallic Black or Dark Metallic Burgundy.   My car has always been RED and it’s been that way since high school.  The only one time that was an exception was when I bought a car in PEARL WHITE because personalizing the car from the manufacturer would have taken too long and would not have been economical sound, which I re-painted to RED, whether it is as the rumor says the Candy Apply RED or the Ferrari RED, I will leave this to your imagination.  🙂

I also love to speed. (I have driven to 110 m/h on the freeway)  I speed whenever I can and I drive so recklessly I would scare the old lady driving next to me.  But in contrary to the popular belief that a red car is a target of the cops, I have not been in much trouble thankfully.   I guess I really like that feeling.   I am not a guy but I could venture to understand that feeling.  That guys would spend all their life, years of hard work and a successful career to obtain their dream car, whatever that maybe.   But isn’t that kind of similar to women wanting that orgasmic feeling, having a wide selection of fuck buddies and sinking deep into the pleasures.   Fact is it is just a few seconds of joy, is it really worth it?  Modern men and women seek instant gratification so of course it is worth it because we want things fast, who would want to wait and spend all their time courting?  But aren’t long term committed relationship that last a lifetime worthy of your time?  You know, the way relationships were in your grandfather’s day where a woman would wait for years for the return of her husband after WWII?

Recently I come across an article that talks about wealthy men and their ability to give orgasm to women.  The study alleges that the wealthier the men in China, the higher their ability to give women orgasm.   I don’t know how reliable the alleged claim is but has the research considered the fact that China has a long tradition of suppressing women from enjoying sexual pleasures and with the exception of big cities, women exist solely for prolonging the family line?  Of course, times have changed and things aren’t the way there were in the past.  But how many such studies were conducted previous to this one?  The finding would have been more reliable if a study was done offsetting the influence from 1) the psychological factor of  faking orgasm to ensure your quality of life, 2) open discussions of sexual preferences are encouraged and widely accepted for women in China as times have changed.   The list can go on and to name here are just two considerations.

My point is, is this study really a representation of an inflated sense of male ego to think that with more money, you are able to better satisfy women? (Let me guess, this study is conducted and published by a male psychologists)  Is that why men are career driven?  Of course, it is undeniable that with more money, you would spend less time working on manual tasks so more leisure time can be freed up to do what you please.  However, the pressure that comes with the reduction of manual tasks could not be offset by the increase of mental tasks.  As such, could the pressure increase be undermining your ability to give enjoyable sex?  Perhaps women are the only ones who feel this way.  Most men (for the remaining few, Viagra would eliminate all your worries) could probably enjoy sex as a stand alone pleasure and not be affected by other things, not emotions, not pressure, not attachment, nothing.    Women are becoming more like men nowadays and that is why they have their own career, own house, own investments, her own list of boy toys and so on.

One thing that was neglected in all of these is perhaps, maybe, that slim chance, all she wanted was not orgasmic feelings but a deep soulful connection.

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