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Recently, things happened at a forum that I frequent.  I was attacked with very rude comments with regards to my position of respecting and allowing “sugar babying” to thrive in our society and maybe even supporting the individual if s/he happens to be my friend.  So in response to all the attack, I replied as follows:

Logic is logic, all inferences, no emotional attachment to the concluding statements. What I am trying to get at instead is the bigger picture here. Nonetheless, if you would like to evaluate my writing technique, personalities and the lack thereof, feel free to it. But I would even be more appreciative if you are directing your comments to the topic and most importantly to the core of my arguments as well as the aforementioned logic used to derive my questions.

Ultimately we all have faculties capable to make personal decisions in our lives and whether those decisions jive with each other’s standards and expectations is a non-issue. The issue is your ability to keep an open mind such that your love and kindness can flow through you to those who you consider as different than you. You do not have to agree with them or even like them but two people have an opinion can passionately discuss their ideas openly without one person intending to change the other person’s opinion through coercion, insults or other insensitive/critical deeds. I am most certainly guilty of the traits because I too am human and we all want to believe that our thoughts breed better approaches to a matter. However, the reason for embracing different types of people, different attitudes to the same matter, and different life styles and choices in a society is what makes this world beautiful. If a mono-cultural society is not one interesting enough to maintain, why would we strive to achieve a mono-thinking society, even a small one on here?

Afterall, perhaps there ought to be a “s” after “logic” for pluralities is one of the “twelve pure concepts of the understanding” (as proposed by Kant in his Critique of Pure Reason). Hopefully, with more willingness and understanding, we are able to see different sides of a matter.

‘Redeeming Love” by Francine Rivers is a book that I would recommend to you. The story is about the struggles of a girl who was a prostitute, even after marriage to a highly spiritual and dignified man, still voluntarily returned to her old trade. But both the man and god spend a lifetime to remove fear and hurt from her and replace them with love.

Maybe not to the degree of prostituting yourself, but have you or anyone close to you fallen from grace? If so, do you think that condemning the person is a healthy way to bring good to our society? To the law, there are variance in the degree of punishment to distinguish the severity of a crime. To me, a sin is a sin, whether you prostitute yourself or tell a lie. But I would still want to love the person even though it is not something that is easy to do. Before then, I would avoid judging or discriminating because of their personal choices and I would still want to respect the person even when their values are vastly in opposition to mine.

I did the test and I found that I am 15% an achiever and 12% of the remaining categories:  perfectionist, a leader, a thinker and a helper.  🙂  Try to see how accurate it is for you.

九型人格分析
第三型 成就者、事業型、成就型、實踐型

15%
第一型 完美主義者、完美型、改革者、改進型、秩序大使

12%
第四型 藝術型、浪漫者、自我型、憑感覺者

12%
第八型 領袖型、能力型、挑戰者、保護者、權威型

12%
第五型 智慧型、觀察者、思想型、理性分析者、思考型

12%
第二型 助人者、全愛型、助人型、成就他人者、博愛型

12%
第六型 忠誠型、忠誠型、尋找安全者、謹慎型

10%
第七型 快樂主義型、豐富型、活躍型、創造可能者、享樂型

8%
第九型 和平型、和平者、和諧型、維持和諧者

8%

nokia-eseries-hello-kitty-phones-alasRecently, I’ve been eye-ing that kitty cell phone and something in me wants to order from Japan again. Yes, I know. It’s another *HUGE* economical cost (stock fees+S/h+ new memory, sound cards et al… ) in exchange for un-necessities in an unstable time, let alone the other 100 logical factors why this is a BAD idea. The most shameful one out of all is I suddenly am in competition with my 12-yr old neighbor who wants that phone. How could I ever allow myself to get down to that level of nativity (or greed) and attempting to fight that candy from the little soul. Candies are supposed to be reserved for little souls, ain’t for older fellows, when am I ever going to get this? Nonetheless, we humans only really need ONE motivation to initiate actions. Here is my forethought.’ If we only live for necessities, aren’t we giving up our privilege and capacity to be a human being?’ (okay, I will spare you my five other ‘faulty’ logic – I’ve been reading that “Critique of Pure Reason” translated text again and obviously WAY too much, sigh. Me and my ‘1781’ thinking ). They say a picture is worth a thousand words… now, let’s take a look at some pictures.

iphone-3g-vs-hello-kitty1


Today, we are so far apart, you have your life and I continue my busyness.   If one day, your eye meets mine on the street by accident, you will nod at me, maybe ask “How I am doing?”  But there will be silence, we both don’t know what to say.  Because you will discover that I’ve changed.  Just as I no longer know you.  But does all that matter?  All I know is at that moment, I think deeply of you.

今日你同我天各一方
你有你既生活 我繼續我既忙碌
但係假如有一日
我地真係係路上高偶然咁撞到既話
我地會點下頭 問候一下
然後已經唔知講乜o野好
因為你會發現我已經改變左
正如我可能唔再認識你
但係咁其實又有乜關係
我祇係知道係呢一剎那
我係幾咁想念你

誰令我能情深一片 令我輕柔如水清澈
令我心靈回復恬靜 令我拋棄內心牽掛
重拾往年純潔美夢 讓我心靈重得安慰

讓我安躺月下
其實乜野先至係真實而恆久既呢
或者我應該就咁保存住呢一份希冀同渴望
俾我相信世上有一幸福係垂手可得
但係永遠係掌握之外
有時激情捉係手裏面會化為灰燼
反而藏係心裏面可以歷久常新
貪求思慕只因痴
一切眼淚思憶都係徒然


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This blog entry is not for women or minors. Consider yourself warned. Read it at your own risk. **************************************

I lust after other women’s husband.  I could easily reach orgasm knowing that I am f…king other women’s man.  If you don’t have any previous success with me, you are still in the running if you go and marry another woman, any tasteful woman, and I would love to give you the best sex you have ever had in your life.  I just crave that little bit of stolen love from the woman you marry.

Guys who share their feelings with me, being too romantic and passionate send chills down my spine.  I avoid them like mouse to cat.  Please, I beg you, don’t ask me about my day.  Don’t try to get to know me.  Treat me like a toy, use me for your relief.  That would make me feel so much better – like a breath of fresh air.  I am at your service and I skill in sucking, blowing, licking, kissing, f..cking, massaging and anything else that pleases you, golden shower on my face, I would welcome yours  with a “sweet” smile.  Threesome with another girl – I enjoy it as much as you do.   Please slap my face and bite my neck in the wild, on the beach. I like the marks you leave me.  I crave the “high” you send me.  I like beats in a doggie style.  Candles, whip cream, ice cubes, mint and tomato juices are only some of my favorites.  The forbidden fruit which you can’t take is my hymen.  That is NOT for you.

One more thing…I am “highly” selective in my partner.  In order to receive this elite treatment, you will need to fit a certain criteria for me to even begin entertaining in this direction.   Beyond that you will need to impress me.  I have seen many things. I also like many things and you will need to give up one thing in exchange for my consent.  Something important to you that I need.  No bargains.  It is either at my own terms or no consent to you.
Please also provide a copy of your AIDS and STD test results and disease free certification.
P.S. – Now I beg you, stop thinking of me in those terms.  This blog entry is for entertainment purpose only.   I am neither soliciting nor attempting to arouse you in any way.  I am merely expressing my inner thoughts. 

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i_doThere is no right or wrong in the realms of  “Love”.

There is only real or unreal “Love”.


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